When it’s time to give the children a goodnight kiss, he usually finds his wife napping on the couch. A couple more drinks later, Joan is no longer cheerful, but is very irritable. Dumbfounded, Jack can’t figure out why she’s mad at him. The accusations start flying, defensive walls shoot up and the arguing escalates to unreasonable and irrational proportions.
When does relaxing with a drink turn into a problem such as this?
A recent article on CNN’s website, Does Drinking Reduce My Stess?, quotes psychology professor Kenneth Sher, head of the University of Missouri’s Alcohol, Behavior and Health laboratory, “If you’re looking forward to a drink to relieve your stress, on a regular basis, that is a warning sign. There’s a very strong relationship between having thoughts like, ‘Alcohol helps me relax’ and ‘Having a few drinks makes my trouble go away’ and alcohol dependency problems.”
If you are using alcohol to handle your stress, you’re actually adding more stress to your system. As professor Sher stated, “When you’re alcohol-dependent, you’re chronically stressed at a baseline level.” The higher your levels of the stress hormone, cortisol, the more you need to drink to feel normal.
According to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, nearly 18 million Americans abuse alcohol or are alcoholic. There are also several million more adults who engage in risky drinking that could lead to alcohol problems such as binge drinking and heavy drinking on a regular basis. How do you know if you have a problem with alcohol? Start by seeing how you answer the questions on my website – Alcohol Recovery.
If you experience drinking-related problems that impact your job, relationships, health, or the law, you should seek professional help. You may want to start by speaking to your doctor but there are a variety of resources available to you. Don’t delay. The effects of alcohol abuse can be extremely serious both to you and to others. If you are interested in scheduling an appointment please contact my Portland, OR or Vancouver, WA office.
