Author: Kathy Marshack

More
than 30 million Americans suffer the incapacitating agony of recurring head
pain or migraines. Pain of the head, face and neck is one of the most intense
forms of pain one can experience, and may make it difficult to carry out normal
living. The reasons for migraines have long been a mystery, but according to a
new study, a genetic link may be to blame.

Scientists studied 50,000 Europeans and found that people with a variation in a
particular section of DNA that regulates the chemical, glutamate. The buildup
of glutamate may put you at greater risk for migraine headaches. This is the
first time that a specific genetic link has been found. For more details
on this study, read First
Genetic Link Found For Common Migraine.

Migraines can be debilitating. If you suffer from these chronic headaches,
I encourage you to visit a physician and a psychotherapist. Together they can
work to improve the severity of your headaches and help you cope with the
stress of chronic pain. Visit Headache
Relief on my website for more information.

Have you ever wondering if your child is gifted? A gifted person according to the National Association of Gifted Children is, “someone who shows, or has the potential for showing, an exceptional level of performance in one or more areas of expression.” It is generally recognized that approximately five percent of the student population, or three million children, in the United States are considered gifted.

A child would be considered gifted if they excelled in these areas:

 

• General intellectual ability or talent
• Specific academic aptitude or talent
• Creative and productive thinking
• Leadership ability

• Visual and performing arts

If you feel like your child is gifted, it is important to observe their behavior. Ask yourself:

• Is your child intense?
• Is he/she a perfectionist?
• Has your child been identified by your school district as “gifted”?
• Is your child an “underachiever”?
• Is your child a rebel?
• Is your child a leader?
• Does your child prefer adults or older children rather than same-age playmates?
• Do you feel awkward talking about your child’s gifts to other parents?
• Does your child “dumb-down” in order to fit in?

If you answered, “yes” to one or more of the questions listed above about your child you will probably benefit from an individual intellectual and achievement evaluation by a qualified psychologist. If they conclude that your child is indeed gifted, then seek specific guidance and training for them. Gifted children are fundamentally different and need help to learn social, interpersonal and self-development skills to relate to the rest of humanity. By doing this you can understand and perhaps even avoid some common problems gifted children commonly face such as a lack of motivation, boredom, perfectionism, cynicism and even depression. For more information visit Guiding A Gifted Child on my website.

Alcoholism
and other drug abuse is an epidemic in our country. We are all aware of the
general problem nationwide. Many employers are taking a hard look at the
problems caused by drug abuse and alcohol addiction and have established
employee assistance programs and redesigned insurance benefits to create
treatment options for employees. Yet among family firms, drug addiction and alcohol
abuse are frequently overlooked.

If there is an alcoholic in a family firm, be the founder, spouse, son,
daughter, or in-law, the family is likely to overlook, condone, deny,
rationalize or minimize the problem for the sake of keeping the family system
intact. If the founder is alcoholic, alcoholism may be a family
“tradition” that will be hard to break. That is, drinking may be
interwoven into the fabric of family life and corporate life. Allowing
addictions to go untreated is no way to take care of either the business or the
family. By ignoring the problem the addict accepts this as tacit approval of
their behavior. And by ignoring the problem, the potential threat to the
integrity of the family and business grows. Alcoholism and other addictions leads
to the breakdown of the family, just what a family firm wants to avoid.

What can help members of the family firm address these problems? Here
are a few things to consider:

1.The addict is fortunate to have the backing of both his/her family as well as
his/her business. With the support of the two most important systems in one’s
life, the addict has increased potential to succeed in treatment. They have a
loving family and they have a job to come back to.

2. Stand as a united front when approaching the addict. If there are
dissenters, the addict will solicit allies to defend their continued drug abuse
and will not seek the help that they need.

3. To deal with the humiliation of recognizing that a family member is
an alcoholic, education will help. Professional treatment centers emphasize that
alcoholism and drug abuse are best understood as diseases. They must be
confronted with their irresponsible and manipulative behavior so that they can
change it. With professional treatment and ongoing support, they can be
returned to their former productive and loving lives.

If you find your family is in this situation, contact Alcoholics Anonymous.
Don’t wait! To read more about addiction in the family firm, read this article
in its entirety –  Addiction
‘conspiracy’ of silence hurts the family and business. You can also visit Alcoholism
Recovery on my website.

There’s a lot of speculation about possible causes of Autism Spectrum Disorder. One such speculation pointed to thimerosal-containing vaccines. According to a new study from the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention), there is no increased risk of autism after receiving a vaccination as an infant or while in the womb – around 20 studies found no such link.

With this new information, CDC Director of Immunization Safety and study researcher Frank DeStefano, says that the focus should be to look for other possible causes. To read more about these findings, read CDC Study Shows No Vaccine, Autism Link. 

With an estimated 1 in 110 children in the United States now being diagnosed with ASD, it can be disconcerting not having a clear reason why these numbers are rising. As a psychologist, even though unsure of the cause, I focus on how to cope with living with ASD or living with someone with ASD. If you are in a relationship with someone with a high-functioning form of autism or Asperger Syndrome, you may be striving to understand how this disorder impacts you and your relationship. My book, Life with a Partner or Spouse with Asperger Syndrome: Going Over the Edge?, emphasizes the importance of fully understanding Asperger Syndrome and then taking a close look at how it impacts their lives. Without insight and tolerance gained from understanding, many spouses end up feeling misunderstood, frustrated, isolated and unloved.

I am also writing a new book about co-parenting with an Asperger partner. Click here to download a free sample chapter of Parenting with a Spouse or Partner with Asperger Syndrome: Out of Sight, Out of Mind.

 

About 17 million Americans are estimated to develop depression each year. In one large survey, 8.6% of adults over the age of 18 reported having a mental health problem for at least two weeks. However, the incidence may be even higher since many people fail to seek help for depression. One reason may be because they are not alert of the signs of depression. Many feel think that depression is exhibited only by emotional problems, but that is not the only sign. Physical ailments can be linked to depression. (It is important to note that depression symptoms vary from person to person.)

Here are a just few physical symptoms that could be linked to depression problems: 

• Headaches
• Digestive Problems
• Muscle or Joint Pain
• Dizzy Spells
• Change in Appetite
• Problems Sleeping
• Exhaustion

Visit The National Institute of Mental Health for a full list of signs and symptoms of depression.

 

If you can relate to the symptoms listed above, I advise you to seek professional help to see if you can determine what is causing your symptoms. And remember that depression is treatable. For more information on treating depression, visit Overcoming Depression on my website. It is also important to understand the mind and body connection. Visit Holistic Health Consciousness for a more detail explanation.