The world is full of patterns. And after studying these patterns, people have made some astounding discoveries…not the least of which is the discovery that those with “Asperger’s Syndrome” have patterns of communication. Once we understand these patterns, we can understand our ASD loved ones better, so our relationships can thrive. Does this concept excite you as much as it does me? I hope so! Because this is a monumental breakthrough for the NT/AS world. Once you understand their patterns, you have a better chance of connecting in their world. Their patterns are relatively simple. It’s kind of like algebra or quantitative methods. You just need the right formula.
It took me forever to break the code, because I was trying to understand them from an NT (neurotypical or non-autism) perspective. Once I let go of that notion, I could more easily see the patterns they use to make sense of the world.
It’s like wandering around in a foreign country for a few days. Once you get your bearings, you can read the street signs or a menu, even when you don’t speak the language. We have to do this for our “Aspies,” because they can’t do this for us.
If you’re to understand, relate and communicate with your Aspie loved one, you will need to be a scientist. We could talk for hours about their patterns… Be sure to sign up for my newsletter so you receive notifications for all of the upcoming conferences.
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